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Childhood is the time where we people thinks different and tries to do things in a different way. But for this we all need some support from the external environment, especially from the parental side. While doing something useful, if we get parental pressure by that time means then it will cause so many problems to us and in turn we lose our confidence in doing it in correct way. Two kinds of supports are there positive and negative. If we get negative support when we fail in doing a thing means, then it will affect us to move further in our process. At the same time if it’s a positive support means, then it will boost us a lot. So as children to our parents we definitely need some kind of mental support from them. Childhood is being stunted by parents who push their children too hard to excel at school and other prestige activities.

The main reason that affects the parental guidance is generation gap between the children’s and parents. Parents pressure their offspring to be polite, learn to eat neatly, and be obedient. So, pressing them a little isn't such a bad thing. Even pushing them to do something before or better than someone else from time to time can be a good thing. Parental may come from various sides like starting comparison with others, putting so much pressure to obey their words, restricting us in doing things and so on.

The effects
Thus, parental pressure has so many effects on children and in their life. So parents have to be more careful in doing things and should think twice before pressuring up their children’s. I hope that here after all parents will start to support their children’s in positive way. Hope for the best…